Monday, April 30, 2012

Where Everything Belongs

Every Monday morning a group of 6 or 7 meets for an hour or so here at St. David's to support one another in living mindfully. We start with lectio--slow, reflective reading and reflection. We are a group that meets to savor wisdom.

A different person reads each section. We pause after each reading--sitting quietly for a minute or two after the 'whole' is finished.

Then each person is invited to quote the phrase that somehow 'spoke' to them.

After everyone has had a chance to speak, we read the whole thing again. Same process--only at the end each person is invited to say, in a minute or two, something about what it was that spoke to them.

There's no cross-talk or conversation. We 'just' listen--and do our best to 'hold' what each person says with interest.

Then we meditate for 20 minutes. At the end, anybody who wants to can speak again.

Finding practices that slow us down to savor and steep in wisdom is one of the most helpful and healthy things we can do for ourselves.

Here's the lectio we used this morning:

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Being alive is itself an expression of mystery. The clues to our real nature are always around us. When the mind opens, the body changes, or the heart is touched, all the elements of spiritual life are revealed. Great questioning, unexpected suffering, original innocence--any of these can require us to open beyond our daily routine, to 'step out of the bureaucracy of ego,' as the Tibetan teacher Chogyam Trunpa counseled. Every day brings its own calls back to the spirit, some small, some large, some surprising, some ordinary. 
--Jack Kornfield, After the Ecstasy, the Laundry

I want to tell you right now that the basis of this whole teaching is that you’re never going to get everything together. As long as you’re wanting to be thinner, smarter, more enlightened, less uptight, or whatever it might be, somehow you’re always going to be approaching your problem with the very same logic that created it to begin with: you’re not good enough. As long as you’re wanting yourself to get better, you won’t. As long as you have an orientation toward the future, you can never just relax into what you already have or already are. To me it seems that at the root of healing, at the root of feeling like a fully adult person, is the premise that you’re not going to try to make anything go away, that what you have is worth appreciating. But this is hard to swallow if what you have is pain.
--Pema Chodron, Start Where You Are
  
At the heart of the deepest spiritual understanding and experience is paradox. There is so much we want to exclude, yet at the heart of reality, in the heart of God, everything belongs.
--Richard Rohr (Everything Belongs, [paraphrased])