Tuesday, April 9, 2013

The Wisdom of Not Knowing

I'm reading a good, helpful & simple primer on Mindfulness--The Mindfulness Revolution. Very short chapters, each by a different writer covering many different takes, styles, and arenas. The bit below is an excerpt.
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Being uncomfortable and uncertain need not be seen as a weakness or problem that needs an immediate answer. Not knowing is a tremendous resource for being effective and innovative at work.

Not knowing means being willing to slow down, drop our preconceptions, and be interested and present to our work situation as it unfolds. Not knowing in this sense is an exercise in balancing effort--actively and intelligently being somewhere in the process of getting somewhere.

We no longer cling to what we know and instead become excited about what we don't know. We ease up on the race to get our jobs done and permit ourselves to notice things we don't normally notice. We let our curiosity have a free rein.

Not knowing is highly inquisitive, and energetic curiosity that inspects then questions without being rude or disrespectful.

We can allow ourselves the opportunity to appreciate, listen, and observe and to be curious about the incidentals, routines, surprises, and even irritations of our work rather than taking them for granted or being put off by them. We can afford to listen for the unspoken messages, often sent unintentionally and even more often misunderstood. By not knowing we open up and so does the world around us, offering an untapped wealth of insight and guidance.

-Michael Carroll